No personality type is your perfect match, and no one is perfect.
Each type has AWESOME traits,
and each type has ANNOYING, icky ones.
Conflict & struggle arise from:
-unrealistic expectations in our dates and mates,
-not taking the opportunities to help each other embrace our personality strengths and balance our weaknesses
Knowing the types of me and my mate and using the communication techniques taught in the HWU courses, has created massive understanding and alleviated conflict in our relationship.
It is a relationship saver, sustainer, and sexifier!
The Strengths & Weaknesses of each type
(according to 16Personalities.com)
INTJ - The Architect
Strengths
-quick,imaginative,and strategic mind
-high self-confidence
-independent and decisive
-hard-working and determined
--open-minded
--jacks of all trades
Weaknesses
-arrogant
-judgemental
-overly analytical
-loathe highly structured environments
ENTJ - The Commander
Strengths
-efficient
-energetic
-self-confident
-strong-willed
-strategic thinkers
-charismatic and inspiring
Weaknesses
-stubborn and dominant
-intolerant
-impatient
-arrogant
-poor handling of emotions
-cold and ruthless
ENTP - The Debater
Strengths
-knowledge
-quick thinkers
-original
-excellent brainstormers
-charismatic
-energetic
Weaknesses
-very argumentative
-insensitive
-intolerant
-can find it difficult to focus
-dislike practical matters
INTP - The Logician
Strengths
-great analysts and
abstract thinkers
-imaginative and original
-open-minded
-enthusiastic
-objective
-honest and straightforward
Weaknesses
-very private and withdrawn
-insensitive
-absent-minded
-condescending
-loathe rules and guidelines
-second-guess themselves
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INFJ - The Advocate
Strengths
-creative
-insightful
-inspiring and convincing
-decisive
-determined and passionate
Weaknesses
-sensitive
-extremely private
-perfectionistic
-always need to have a cause
-can burn out easily
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INFP - The Mediator
Strengths
-idealistic
-seek and value harmony
-open-minded and flexible
-very creative
-passionate and energetic
-dedicated and hard-working
Weaknesses
-too idealistic
-too altruistic
-impractical
-dislike dealing with data
-take things personally
-difficult to get to know
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ENFJ - The Protagonist
Strengths
-tolerant
-reliable
-charismatic
-altruistic
-natural leaders
Weaknesses
-overly idealistic
-too selfless
-too sensitive
-fluctuating self-esteem
-struggle to make tough decisions
ENFP - Campaigner
Strengths
-curious
-observant
-energetic and enthusiastic
-excellent communicators
-know how to relax
-very popular and friendly
Weaknesses
-poor practical skills
-find it difficult to focus
-overthink things
-get stressed easily
-highly emotional
-independent to a fault
The personality information in this tab is based upon the Meyers Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI) information,
the 16personalities.com website, and my own experience and knowledge.
ISTJ - The Logistician
Strengths
-honest and direct
-strong-willed and dutiful
-very responsible
-calm and practical
-create and enforce order
-jacks of all trades
Weaknesses
-stubborn
-insensitive
-always by the book
-jugemental
-often unreasonably blame themselves
ISFJ - The Defender
Strengths
-supportive
-reliable and patient
-imaginative and observant
-enthusiastic
-loyal and hard-working
-good and practical skills
Weaknesses
-humble and shy
-take things too personally
-repress their feelings
-overload themselves
-reluctant to change
-too altruistic
ESTJ - The Executive
Strengths
-dedicated
-strong-willed
-direct and honest
-loyal, patient, and reliable
-enjoy creating order
-excellent organizers
Weaknesses
-inflexible and stubborn
-uncomfortable with unconventional situations
-judgmental
-too focused on social status
-difficult to relax
-difficulty expressing emotion
ESFJ - The Consul
Strengths
-strong practical skills
-strong sense of duty
-very loyal
-sensitive and warm
-good at connecting with others
Weaknesses
-worried about their social status
-inflexible
-reluctant to innovate or improvise
-vulnerable to criticism
-often too needy
-too selfless
ISTP - The Virtuoso
Strengths
-optimistic and energetic
-creative and practical
-spontaneous and rational
-know how to prioritize
-great in a crisis
-relaxed
Weaknesses
-stubborn
-insensitive
-private and reserved
-easily bored
-dislike commitment
-risky behavior
ISFP - The Adventurer
Strengths
-charming
-sensitive to others
-imaginative
-passionate
-curious
-aritistic
Weaknesses
-fiercely independent
-unpredictable
-easily stressed
-overly competitive
-fluctuating self-esteem
ESTP - The Entrepreneur
Strengths
-bold
-rational and practical
-original
-perceptive
-direct
-sociable
Weaknesses
-insensitive
-impatient
-risk-prone
-unstructured
-may miss the bigger picture
-defiant
ESFP - The Entertainer
Strengths
-bold
-original
-aesthetics and showmanship
-practical
-observant
-excellent people skills
Weaknesses
-sensitive
-conflict-averse
-easily bored
-poor long-term planners
-unfocused
Let's celebrate our uniquenesses, stop making each other wrong, and help each other be better.
These HeartWorkUniversity Courses plant you strongly in your personality and give you the tools to understand yourself and your dates and mates; especially in conflict, compatibility & compromise:
Unleash Your Confident Authenticity - shed the shoulds, release past messages (you will take the MBTI personality test)
How to be Valued and Value Others - Learn Your Valuable Verbs
Common Core Values: Compatibility & Compromise: Discover the Values you cannot Compromise and what you need to have in Common. When do you Negotiate & How to Express Yourself Confidently
