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ROOT in RESILIENCE REMEDIES & RESOURCES
Why I believe understanding ego is one of the most important journeys we go on, to heal:
I had so many negative thoughts in my head: I’m not enough, I’m not good enough, I need to change me to be accepted...I was in a constant state of self-loathing. I had done some counseling. But I could not escape me. I remember sitting alone, in the dark, in the corner of my apartment, thinking, I don’t know how to think differently about me? The spiritual leaders and teachers I listen to, told me I have to have self-love. I don’t know how to do that...I try spoiling myself with pedicures and massages, but the feel-goods don’t last.
It was my own journey of not knowing HOW to stop the negative thoughts in my head...that led me to this incredible wisdom about the ego.
Understanding ego, what ego really is, set me free.
I was able to release shame.
I was able to release self-judgment.
I was able to release self-loathing.
I was able to love me,fully and completely.
I now share what I learned with you.
I walk my clients through the insight this book contains, and it is life-changing for them too.
I discovered something amazing on my healing journey:
I could count on love.
Love is powerful.
Love always works.
The search to end anxiety became my greatest gift, because it became a quest to experience true love. Soul kind of love...My own Soul’s love. This love transcends all and healed the anxiety plaguing my existence.
Panic attacks, intrusive thoughts, worry, and fear are no match for the power of love.
Thank you for joining me as I dispel love to you in the way in which Divinity revealed it to me.
You are NOT your Anxiety.
YOU are the witness to your Anxiety.
I felt so unseen. I felt so unloved.
No, my inner children felt unseen and unloved.
Inner children are actually stuck, hurt energy within, from one or more experiences that caused emotional pain.
Feelings are meant to be seen, felt, and offered love in the moment...when they are not seen, felt, and offered love, hurt inner children are created. They stay in the body and are triggered and threatened by anything that may remotely remind them of past hurts or pain.
Your beautiful body is most likely housing some hurt inner children. Welcome to getting to know them and learning how to finally see, feel, and offer them love so they can play.
Conversing with and my inner children was one of the most liberating and loving aspects of my healing journey.
I guide you to do the same with this beautiful, full color workbook, easy to follow with illustrations.
Understanding and relying upon Presence has been the most relieving aspect of my healing journey.
What should I do?
Why is this happening?
I need to figure this out.
What tool or technique could I learn or find to help??? Someone HELP!
Do Do Do. Effort Effort Effort. Work Work Work.
Overwhelm became the gift to usher in PRESENCE. Yes, the gift, for I would have never thought presence contained any magic. Indeed, I am happy to tell you I was wrong.
Allowing PRESENCE to do the work for me, has calmed down my nervous system, my reactive difficult feelings,so peacefully and profoundly.
I’ll let PRESENCE prove it to you too.
Discovering I am a SuperFeeler was a pivotal, relieving, and celebratory moment.
I’m too sensitive. Cold, sound, lights, and fabrics aren’t just uncomfortable, they can cause real pain.
I don’t fit in. I try. It just exhausts me.
Surface conversations are excruciating.
Why do I feel so deeply and just know things. If people really knew what was going on inside, they would be shocked.
There must be something wrong with me.
I’ve tried to be less sensitive, but nothing works.
And then I learned about HSPs, highly sensitive persons. “You mean this is a thing?!” I exclaimed as I read about myself, finally receiving the validation I never had, to BE ME.
We cannot experience meaning and fulfillment
if we are trying to be someone else,
not honoring the truth of our sensitivity.
This book is my gift and cheers to US, the SuperFeelers!
Learn about the 4 types of SuperFeelers, take the Assessment, Feel your Feelings, Celebrate You, and Create the Thrive Lifestyle...bonus section for Parents of SuperFeeler Kids
It was the one area of my life I thought I could be proud of and rely upon...giving.
But I never seemed to get enough back. And I felt taken advantage of much of the time...I began to feel resentful.
Yet, at the end of the day, I convinced myself it was better to be nice...even though I continued to be plagued with not feeling enough.
The day came when I realized I was creating my life...I was attracting narcissists or very selfish people who kept the story I believed about myself...ALIVE.
OverGiving & OverTaking are equal in frequency, both unhealthy.
OVERGIVING is NOT healthy for YOU or those you love.
Learn how to empower, rather than exhaust yourself and disempower. It starts with appreciating and loving YOU.
We are going to break the cycle of overgiving, along with the mindset that believes it must overgive.
Create balance physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually, and in your intimate partnership too.
Are a turtle or a lion in conflict?
Do you have language skills for the times you are triggered or emotionally charged? If you do, you avert defensiveness and create harmony.
I guide you with incredible ego calming phrases, for both you and your mate. You and your partner can balance and learn from each other.
Life is not a fairytale, but we can create as many fairytale moments as we want. You are worth it and so is your relationship. Most of us were not taught or did not have healthy communication modeled to us. This simple, with illustrations workbook guide is meant to guide you to create more fairytale moments, lasting comfort and ease, and fulfillment in your relationship through Amazing Communication exercises.
I have some amazing exercises for fostering love from The Love Chapter and developing natural habits toward and with each other. And, I reveal some profound lessons from Adam & Eve! You might be shocked!
We can't forget the Weekly Ritual you can start doing right now that will make you both feel heard, thus loved, and open you both up to deeper depths of intimacy and fun!
Common proclivities for men and women will offer tremendous insight and wisdom for moving forward with less judgment toward each other, but instead be able to offer more grace.
Could you have peace in the midst of anxious situations and people?...not depending upon anything outside yourself to be a certain way in order to experience peace?
Could you trust yourself and your own divine wisdom, feeling confident in your decisions?
Could you be psych med pill free?
I believe the answer is “yes.”
I discovered Heaven Within, thus Ending Suffering. Indeed, as this book points out, life has pain, but suffering is a choice.
In this workbook, I highlight the foundational teachings of Buddha & Jesus.
Be challenged to take a hard look at what you believe and how these beliefs cause you to suffer.
Interact with these profound teachings, meditate and pray with their precepts, and discover how heaven/nirvana is a mindset away.
Forgiveness does not make sense to the ego mind.
Ego cannot access grace or understanding.
Ego cannot see or feel the realities of humanity.
Ego cannot concern itself with the suffering of others.
Ego can only see and feel its own pain.
Ego seeks revenge or feels hurt when it feels threatened by others.
Which is why FORGIVENESS seems overwhelming, unfair, and impossible.
Some people try to forgive, because they believe it is the right thing to do.
Your Higher Self can genuinely forgive, liberating yourself and possibly your oppressor (if they choose).
I invite you to join me on the journey toward high altitude living, forgiveness.
This is a tall mountain to climb.
Take your time.
Stop for oxygen as needed.
You will reach the peak.
I will be there to celebrate with you.
Forgiveness can become your state of being toward Self & Others.
You will no longer take offense by anyone’s actions.
You will no longer take anything personally.
You will no longer give your power away.
You will be free.
Grieving goes beyond the sadness from the loss of someone we love.
I was shocked to learn the necessity of grieving on my healing journey.
We must grieve the hurt and pain caused to us.
We must grieve the hurt and pain we may have caused to others.
We allow the feelings of sadness, regret, disappointment, and hurt...I cried for 3 days straight once...and then I was done...but the point is that I ALLOWED IT.
Our higher selves can witness our grief.
Our grief wants to be seen.
After our higher selves have seen and offered love to the hurt aspect of us,
we are free to move forward empowered.
I am in awe of nature.
I see a flower and I want to crawl inside of her.
Can I intimately breathe in her fragrance?
Can I swirl in her aura?
Maybe we are one, the flower and I.
May I walk with her essence.
Nature helps me remember who I am, have gratitude for our Creator, and to offer myself and others nurturance, as I would a beautiful flower.
May the Art of Flower Bathing be a beautiful place to be inspired and write whatever your heart desires to say for the day.
This journal contains quotes from the poet Wordsworth.
HOW TO SOW
guided questions within an autobiographical self-help book
It is true, we reap what we sow.
Do you sow thoughts of:
self doubt and not feeling good enough
worry and anxiety
past hurts run cyclically in your head?
Because YOU are greater than these thoughts, YOU have the power to change them.
This book tackles the beliefs you are sowing.manifesting that are reaping/attracting your current life and HOW to transform them into the life and Divine Purpose intended for you, without religious dogma.
Experience faith in yourself in a whole new light, the light of love.
You reap what you sow. Galatians 5:7
I felt like I was on an endless search for my knight.
I was kind and loving, but no one seemed to appreciate it.
What was wrong with me? Was I not good enough?
I had a faith that said I was suppose to be free. I was far from free. I did not love me and that had everything to do with why I could not find my knight. This is not a religious tale, but Spirit whispers as I slowly discover who I really am.
If you have self-doubt...if you feel lonely and frustrated, and question whether love is in the cards for you
You will see yourself in me. You will laugh and cry with me. And hopefully you will find your knight too for your Knight is available right now. Your Journey could begin today.
HeartBreak to Wholeness
an autobiographical tale
Deep Healing Video Courses
Cure Anxiety: Live from Your Heart & Master Your Mind
Learn The Foundational Tools To Cure Basic Daily Stressors And More Traumatic Forms of Anxiety
Reconciling My Body's Reactions with My Sacred Self
When you feel as if your mind and body are out of control. IFS (Internal Family Systems) is powerfully utilized.
Forgiveness of Self & Others: the hardest and most important HeartWork
Forgiveness is the cornerstone of your peace, joy, and fulfillment in life and love. Being offended and hurt, doesn't work.
Grieving Your Hurts & Past
Grieving the hurts and harm done to you, is a foundational aspect to your healing and feeling free.
Heal Hurt & Trauma: Feel Your Feelings
Especially The So-Called Negative Feelings Without Making Yourself Wrong
Master Your Mind & Conquer Automatic Negative Thoughts
Master Your Mind Through Reframing Tools & Skills
Build Your Confident Authenticity Video Courses:
Personality, Purpose, Values
Discover Your Valuable Verbs: How to Value Yourself & Others
Our #1 Recommended & Favorite Starter Course...A Must See & Do!
Unleash Your Confident Authenticity: How Past Messages
Cause You to Lose Yourself
Shed the Shoulds & Embrace Your Unique Personality
Discover Your Common Compatibility Values using the
Know What Is Important To You With The Help of The Compatibility Compass And Create Healthy Boundaries
Slaying Your Dragons
Learn About Being An Everyday SuperHero Dragon Slayer & How Men & Women Differ
In Attraction & Expectation
Man's Search for Meaning by Viktor Frankl: a deep dive exploration
"It's Not What Life Gives Us, But What Life Expects From Us." Viktor Frankl
Quick Power Packed with a Punch
(Free & Foundational for Everyone Mini Courses)
OverGiving Hurts Relationships / Triggered In Conflict / Nice Guys Finish 1st
Being tired of your current status is a great sign, its time to fuel your efforts in the right direction, feeling good again, feeling inspired, anticipating each day. You can heal and overcome. If I did it, and many others (check out testimonials), you can do it too!
Communication & Conflict Resolution Video Courses
Healthy Communication Skills: When Triggered & In Conflict
Silence Disintegrates Relationships - Create HarmonyRather Than Defensiveness...
SuperHero Sharing & Listening
Learn The Healthy Habits of Sharing & Listening, Instilling Value, And Setting The Stage For
Harmony & Cooperation
Sensitivity, OverGiving, Being Hurt, & Balance
How to Never Take Anything Personally
Save Yourself From Needless Hurt & Suffering
OverGivers, You Matter!
We teach people how to treat us
Sensitivity is Your SuperPower!
You are NOT TOO SENSITIVE! For Sensitives, Empaths, & Highly Sensitive Persons (HSPs)
Are You Under the Misperception that Others Should Not
Let You Down
Singles Series of Video Courses
Singles Dump the Junk in Your Trunk
Discover Exactly What Junk You're Lugging Around That is Negatively Affecting Your Life,
Dating & Relationship
Dating Skills: The 14 Golden Rules of Swagiliciousness in Dating
These Are The Rules You Must Have To Equip You To Date Confidently And Authentically - Attracting Your Mate is a Very High Possibility!
Nice Guys, How to Finish First!
Learn How to Unleash the SuperHero already In You!
Women Only Series of Video Courses
How to Love Your Man When You Feel Frustrated
A Power-Packed Workshop For Women Who Want To Embrace Their Inspiring Power
Silence Hurts More: How to Safely Start the Conversation with Your Partner and Dates
Understand the Root of Many Women's Struggle to Climax, How to Communicate & OverCome - course for both Women & Men
SEEN & HEARD
When we feel Valued, Seen, & Heard,
we feel LOVED.
Introducing my 12 Magnetic Valuable Verb cards!
Place the cards in order from how you most feel valued with this particular Verb, to how you least feel valued.
You just learned a ton about yourself, and now you get to share this with your loved ones. Have them do it too.
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What PeoPle Say
"Kim, You are awesome! Just wanted to tell you how grateful and blessed I am to have stumbled across your group and life coaching. It's like the female version of hitched. Thank you for helping me transform my life." - divorced Dad who was ready to give up on love, but is now enjoying a passionate relationship
— Troy H. Idaho